A Woman's Worth, by Elaine Stedman
Chapter 3.
So What is Human?
Let us now return to Ibsen's Nora, and her poignant aching quest. What identity
will Nora find in a hostile and decadent society? Having declined her role
as wife and mother, will she now find security and identity in a new function?
If Nora is not a human being, what sociological or philosophical ingredient
will perform the desired transformation to "humanness"? If Nora
is not a human being what is she? What is a human being; does one become
human?
Out there, she will hear such statements as, "We're not afraid to give
up what's feminine to be free." And again, "Let women who wish
to, and who are gratified by doing so, stay home or take subordinate jobs...but
get this straight, this choice has nothing to do with femininity."
She will also hear the theme echoed again and again that a "totally
new life-style for both men and women, where submission and domination do
not exist, is essential for the full realization of women's equality."
She will hear demands for a complete social revolution in America, a restructuring
of the nation's family, religious, educational, political, professional,
and economic frameworks. They will say, "The traditional roles which
describe man as the provider, protector, leader, and woman as the mother,
nest-builder and follower, result from ancient myths and misconceptions.
These must be replaced by a sexless society."
On the other hand, there are the "Pussycats" who will tell her,
"You are simply female. Learn how it works. The individual parts add
up to the purring efficiency of the whole. Think of yourself as a switchboard
with all sorts of lovely buttons and plug-ins for lighting up and making
connections. The idea is to keep the lines busy but not crossed up."
It is truly amazing how humanity is nothing but disruptive outside of Christ.
Feminists and "Pussycats" represent two reactionary extremes.
Both plunder rather than heal our humanity. It is a sad commentary on humanity's
lostness.
Will Nora turn to religionists for her answers? There, too, she will find
ambiguity and confusion of role and identity. England's Emmaline Pankhurst,
relying heavily on religion, bolstered her followers with "Trust in
God; She will provide." On the other hand, a Texas preacher asserts
from his pulpit, uncontested by his congregation, "Flakey, that stands
for female!" And an avowedly Christian psychologist taught seminars
on "Masculinity Deified," urging women and children to become
puppets to the husband and father. They were taught to think only his thoughts,
cater to his every whim, and thus to grossly distort the biblical concept
of submission and subvert honest manhood.
The contemporary scenario has metastasized into a preposterous degree of
heresy, pagan worship and the celebration of lesbianism. The stated goals
of feminism, once purporting to be a simple plea for legitimate recognition
of women as God's persons, wanting to serve him with all our human faculties,
has been a "slippery slope" indeed for many who were acknowledged
leaders in the church. The danger signals were evident in the early stages
of this leadership. It would seem that the very biblical notion of male
responsibility for maintaining theological integrity has been perilously
weak at the juncture where early correction should have been made.
Then there are more subtle errors, intentional or innocent, which reflect
a bias in the interpretation of Scriptures. Referring to 1 Corinthians 11:3-16,
and specifically to verse 7, "For a man ought not to cover his head,
since he is the image and glory of God; but woman is the glory of man,"
one man concludes: "In this passage, we are dealing with divinely established
principles by which the man is the head of the woman and the woman bears
the image of the man." Paul hereby is interpreted as endorsing
the dangerously false premise that woman was made in the image of man rather
than in the image of God. Such interpretation, however, contradicts the
clear statement of equality in Galatians 3:28 and the clear teaching of
the Genesis account of creation. This misinterpretation occurs despite the
explicit wording of Paul's statement, "woman is the glory (not
image) of man." While this kind of exegesis may be innocent or careless,
it is no less devastating. It is unfortunate that men who are qualified
and able ministers should thus earn for themselves epithets such as "misogynistic"
and "chauvinist." But the greater tragedy is that they unjustly
project that onus to the Apostle Paul who writes under the inspiration of
the Holy Spirit.
The confusion among those who have chosen to join the male-female controversy
within the church continues to escalate at an alarming rate. Within the
evangelical community there is a tiresome lexicon skirmish, of dubious value.
If the "rights" issue could be sidelined and all the energy and
giftedness focused, with childlike humility (the kind Jesus recommended!),
on self-forgetful, compassionate serving of others, it is awesome to think
how effectively the church could demonstrate her high calling!
The Nobel Peace Prize was awarded to Mother Theresa, honoring just such
godly serving. It has, appropriately, not been awarded to anyone for engagement
in self-assertive demands for personal rights and privilege. One can hardly
avoid the conclusion that our enemy has developed an effective strategy
for disqualifying the very ones called to be salt and light in our decadent
and darkened society, by keeping us continually distracted with issues of
our identity or intrinsic value. Such distraction will persist so long as
we continue to see ourselves through the secular grid of earned value. In
that context we are consumed with ego-centered ambition and power struggles--
a frustrating and futile way to live, indeed.
Does it matter any longer that GOD has secured to us his gracious gifts
of unconditional love, forgiveness and acceptance? Must we continually petition
for standing, acknowledgment and approval from every other source but the
One before whom we stand, and whom we claim to serve? It seems the ubiquitous
"equality" issue, which is adjunct to identity, has largely degenerated
into an obsession with prestige and power. When such attitudes prevail,
it is evident there is little or no understanding-- certainly a lack of
gratitude for--God's value system, and futile capitulation to a secular/worldly
value system. This amounts to a fall from grace, and the practice of the
legalistic system of demand and performance from which we as Christ's redeemed
ones have been liberated.
Clearly, the Scriptures never renege on the equality of woman with man,
and in these consistent declarations the woman's identity is securely established.
It is in this uncompromising strength of identity that her personhood stands
unchallenged and unthreatened. From the Word of God we learn that we are
human beings, both man and woman, because God made us so. The purpose then
of our mutual humanity is to mirror God's image. The sexual mode through
which we give expression to God's character is our function, our role. The
issue of our equal value is a decision made by God, and validated when we
choose to acknowledge Him as the one who determines our destiny.
"Then the Lord God formed man of dust from the ground, and breathed
into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being"
(Genesis 2:7).
The qualifying characteristic of our humanity is that we are infused with
the very life of God. This is the means by which we are intended to reflect
his character, to reproduce his kind of life. This also tells us that our
humanity is dependent upon God for fulfillment. Without him we are dust,
lacking both significance and authority. In the worship of him, in communion
with his perfection and wholeness we find healing and authentication. It
is not because he needs us, but because we need him, that God commands our
worship. And our worship is a response to the God who in love shares with
us his own life. This is both the basic and ultimate relationship of our
lives, from which all other relationships derive their relevance.
In the case of human creativity, the function of the "created"
object is left to the discretion and prerogative of the "creator."
In commerce and industry, a careful system of patents and copyrights has
been devised to vouchsafe this exclusive privilege. Is not this human system
of law and order a reflection of the prevailing right-of-ownership between
God and his creatures? If we allow for God at all, we must recognize the
priority of the Creator-God to determine the purpose for which he created
and the intelligence and integrity of his determined order for the function
of our humanity.
It seems altogether evident and reassuring that our God-assigned function
is intended to contribute to the fulfillment and the wholeness of our humanity.
Inferiority or superiority are irrelevant as we stand before God, and when
present are evidence that we are failing to live in the dignity and humility
of who we are as God's persons.
The Genesis account of creation teaches us that the human being is more
than beast, less than God. Both man and woman are given dominion over the
lesser creatures, under divine authority. We are to worship God and rule
nature. Worship is the acknowledgment of God's character, and ruling His
creation with benevolent care will extend our worship of the Creator-God.
Within these boundaries we are free, unthreatened, and fulfilled. Any alteration
of this order diminishes our joy and makes us spoilers of His creation.
A vital corollary to being created in God's image and his mandated authority
to rule his creation, is the freedom to choose, a consummate privilege and
responsibility. (Presumably, it is now politically incorrect to refer to
"mandate". Will it now be "womandate", or perhaps "persondate"?)
God does not coerce our worship and love. He does not insist upon his right
to be worshiped, loved and served! How singularly strange it is that we
humans resort to coercion and demand, methods inappropriate to our humanity
and surely arrogant toward God.
So, are women human? The question should never have to be raised! The incontrovertible
proof is the biblical account of creation. Do women have equal value with
men? The answer will be evident and affirming if we receive the biblical
mandate for who we are and why we are here. On the other hand, the question
has no definitive answer when we detach ourselves from God's purpose for
our mutual humanity, and rely upon a non-biblical assessment of our value/identity.
So, what's the difference? Why did God create us male and female?
Chapter 4.
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